Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy 
To me they advised to go to the court in the morning and seek a temp RO on behalf of the kids...
I truly don't know that I will.
A 10 day order, that allows him a day in court to rant and make allegations is not particularly worth it to me.
Sleep on it and give it some thought. I won't push you in one way or another, but I would suggest you take into account how DD11 will feel about this going forward. What he said to her was extremely abusive, and even if you get supervised visits set up, his right to supervised visits may supersede your daughter's wishes to not see him if that's her request. And in the meantime, if he has any sort of visitation rights he could choose to exercise them while you're drawing up plans with your lawyer, which may further harm your daughter emotionally and hurt your case if you attempt to deny him any legal visitation rights he currently holds on the basis that your daughter 'doesn't want to.'