Old 11-27-2016, 01:48 PM
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Oh, and in terms of what to say to the kids NOW, I think all you have to say is that their dad sometimes says things without thinking it through, so they should try not to take those things as promises. If they cry and say he's horrible, you don't have to defend him, but you can acknowledge how disappointed they are and let them work it through. Unfortunately, this is a pattern with him and they have to be allowed to draw their own conclusions.
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