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Emotional Maturity
Proactive (I make choices)
Act on emotions
Governed by vision/purpose
Come from love/abundance
“Choose to” motivation
Giving (other-centered)
Step outside comfort zone
Seek growth
Unity/goodwill with others
Live in the present
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Working on all of these in my sobriety now. For me they don't always come easy though I have to keep practicing them.