Hi Stormi
You have a lot of weight on your shoulders. I'm glad you are seeing you need to take care of you this weekend. I would actually suggest you take care of you first always. Put on your own oxygen mask first. I know I can focus on other's problems as a way of deflecting from my own. And I also know, and I hope you don't misunderstand this, that I allow people to treat me the way they do.
Sometimes detaching with love is the healthiest thing one can do. Hang in there.