He never said anything to me, he just began to be very careful about the way he spoke to me.. he was standoffish, usually civil, sometimes a jerk.. he did flirt back once or twice over the summer.. and over the summer was when he openly admitted that he was now drinking all the time, including at work..
I don't think he blames me, I think I irritate him, but I don't think he blames me.. He has been trying in subtle ways to push me away.. nevermind that it means no one is there to take care of his aunt.. But when it happened, the incident on Easter, he blamed his wife's crazy conglomeration of pain killers and other drugs.. He didn't blame me.. But I'm sort of blaming me.