Well, again, my prefacing statement.. This is the only place I've spoken of it, or will speak of it.. although my mind goes to scenarios where I might.. I know I won't.. And sometimes when I don't know what else to do with a thought, I dump it here...
I too have begun to practice the art of minding my own business, I'm still trying to finish Codependent No More and that's really helping.. I'm better at controlling actions and reactions, but I do have a tendency to mentally obsess.
I still just want to know if I'm the only one that could spot that lie.. vodka? sore throat? the whole bottle?