I don't think you're crazy, but I hope you can let it go.
One of the things I've worked hard on in my sober time is minding my own business. I'm a work in progress. It's something I pray about at my door just before I leave in the morning. I have to ask myself (pretty often!) -
"Does it need to be said?"
"Does it need to be said right now?"
"Does it need to be said by me?"
I think most of us would have recognized that behavior - and I don't think it takes an alcoholic to do so.
I tend to want to save the world.
I read on another post yesterday,
"I don't need your help today.
~Love, God."