I couldn't do it. My previous long term relationship was with a woman who drinks 2-3 glasses of wine or beers every night, and suffers an attitude shift. There were always better in the fridge too. I had a lot of cravings and resentment, and constantly relapsed when I was with her. I had to move out before I could successfully attain long term sobriety. My current gf has maybe 3 glasses of wine a year, and it's so much easier for me.