making my sobriety contingent on the amount of meetings I attend is a recipe for living a fear based life. a fear based life was something I existed in while drinking.
my sobriety isn't contigent on the amount of meetings I attend. it is contigent on the maintenance of my spiritual program.
I go to meetings to carry the message to the next sick and suffering alcoholic.
one of the the great things about the program is helped me to not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it. I can look at my past,own it, and say,"yup, that was me. I did that and im greatful im not that man any more."
and I can use it to help another alcoholic.
buuuuut, I don't like meetings that are all war stories. meetings that talk about the solution is where recovery happens,imo.