Originally Posted by
angrykitty1234 
What can I do to help my alcoholic boyfriend realize what he's doing to his life.
You can if you wish do a couple of things.
But, mostly the long run outcome will be on his shoulders.
Order for him to read the AA Big Book -- 10 bucks or less.
Call your AA Central Office -- get locations of local AA meetings.
Then -- tell him that he needs to read and go.
Many will tell you that this won't work.
Well I know one with a month of sobriety more than me -- 9 years
who's family did this and he has stayed sober since.
Some are ready and only need a nudge.
Others could not be forced with a million dollars.
M-Bob