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Old 10-30-2016, 11:11 AM
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Apalem
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Join Date: Oct 2016
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Guys thanks for your responses. My wife would have made subtle hints re my drinking, but never said stop dwith inking the r I'm leaving or similar.

The day after wife left I tried to enrol in a local treatment centre, but they couldn't take me for three weeks and/or until 5 days sober. I lasted a week waiting and then went to an AA meeting.

I have regular contact with wife due to DS, and I made a mistake of trying to do step 9 with daughter way too soon.

I spoke to dd about a suicide attempt by wife - wife told me about this after we had split and that I had made her feel that way - and considering suicide myself (dd is at college a flight away) DD kept me walking about city for 5hrs before meeting me.....and then carried all I had said back to DW. There were a number of issues between dad and I previously. DD did make mention of SIL having told wife to leave me on a number of occasions.
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