Recovery and Relationship advice
Hi, not sure where to post this but I suppose this is as good a place as any. I'm a 38 year old man and i am in recovery at time of writing I have been sober for almost 8 weeks.
The catalyst for me getting sober was the fact that my wife left me...there were a large number of events which led to this, but the main thing was the fact that I was drinking and I am an alcoholic.
My wife left and is saying now that she doesn't love me, hasn't loved me for years and that it doesn't matter what I do, we will not get back together, I had/have been married for 9 years. My wife is refusing any form of counselling, marriage advice, al anon etc. I have a son and a step daughter too
Has anyone else been in a similar situation and resolved their marriage issues like this????
How did you do it, is it just a case of learning to live with it?