Never making me feel like I am enough
So many money problems; bill collectors calling day and night
Your frequent irritability and freak outs over the smallest inconveniences
You never buying me a birthday or Christmas present (excuse: too broke)
Selfish and irritable
Never feeling like you're on my team
Unrealistic
Acting like small favors are massive inconveniences
Yup to all of these. The present thing is really bugging me now. I'm not that materialistic but now that all the dysfunction in this relationship is coming together, I see how the rights of passage and rituals I poo-poo'ed when I was younger, well, they mean something. And not getting anything means something too.