I'm talking about real life Dee and I'm talking about pre- drinking days. I feel it would be really condescending to explain that but the mods usually seem to take everything as if I can only be referencing SR folks when I talk about my life and then I get yelled at. Not so much by you but it has happened and I know it was meant to hurt me.
I can add "I am talking about real life" to my posts, but it makes me feel really condescending which I am not comfortable with.