welcome, jwang.
i've not been to a meeting where that kind of stuff would be said/happen, but if i had, nah, i wouldn't go back to that meeting.
there are others, of course.
so that's an option, to check out other meetings.
more options include SMART, or checking out AVRT (lots of threads in the forum just above this one).
i don't know if there's Lifering anywhere near you, but you could check.
lots of support here for you making changes.
if you want more input, you might consider posting in the Newcomers section at the beginning of the forums; things are much busier there and you'd be likely to get more responses.