Originally Posted by
teatreeoil007 
With regards to what we expect from others, we have to get real; be real about it. Perhaps ask ourselves: What can I reasonably expect from this person? What are they truly capable of right now?
Amen to this!
And, i know what to expect from my bf. Sometimes that's part of the problem. He's boring and predictable. He's reliable and loyal and dependable. There's no drama. Sometimes there's too much silence. I know what he's capable of, he's been honest.
It's me who struggles. I want drama. I have an emptiness that needs to be filled. I know that I can't expect him to be something he's not.