Originally Posted by
Oguin23 
I'm not sure I understand your point and I find your post quite condescending. If you don't have anything helpful to say don't say it.
You'll find lots of tough love here. Many people have been through the relapse cycle quite a few times while still posting here so after a while you start saying ultimatums. It's a grueling process, rinse, wash, repeat.
When you are ready, you'll know.