My annual anniversaries are very solemn days they mean more to me then any other day of the year I usual reflect on things all day. At one year no one noticed or cared but at 5 my wife got me a card that meant a lot to me. I try and do something for myself. I know some say we shouldn't celebrate finally doing what we should be doing I get that but I worked to hard came to far to not at the very least notice the day and try and reward myself somehow.