Susie,
Good for you. It will hurt and you will have good days and bad. Come talk to us on those bad days and in the beginning there will be plenty. Over time the no contact really helps. Cut phone contact, texting and social media. Tell friends and family you do not want to hear anything about him. It hurts every time his name gets pulled up, so stay N/C.
Sending Hugs Suzy Q, you can do this!!!