Bluehawaii.....
Don't you think it is about time to "wean" your daughter?
Of course, it is wonderful to have healthy, quality time with our adult children....
I know she is in treatment for her issues and addiction.....(I hop that she still is and still has her therapist).....SO, SHE HAS OTHERS THAT SHE SHOULD BE TAKING THESE ISSUES TO.
It is not healthy for you and your development...not to mention your enjoyment of life.....to always be in the role of nurturing, nursing, caretaking, fixer roles....
don't you want to live a more "normal" life...with your own friends and activities that belong to only YOU?