Originally Posted by
Hangnbyathread 
IWhile she assured me that I should drink whenever I wanted, in the end, whether we drink or not, won't really make a difference to them. They will drink, or they wont, it has nothing to do with us.
This is so true. I am basically a non-drinker (a few sips of wine gives me headaches) and never had any at home. He drank anyway, when he wanted. So while I understand it may not be a good idea to have an open bar at home when you live with an A, at the end of the day, they either will or won't.