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Old 09-29-2016, 04:43 PM
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lizatola
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I understand. My XAH would never admit that i left because of the drinking. There was more to it than that, even, but the drinking was the icing on the cake and the propelling factor that got me to move on and move out and file for divorce.

I stopped caring about what my XAH said to others. The hardest thing is when he fills our son's head with lies about me. I've had to turn that over to God and let my son decide for himself as to who is telling the truth and as to who does or doesn't have his best interest at heart. My son is a teenager and will tell me that his dad has been drinking. Currently, my son is trying to take care of his father and his drunken messes and that saddens me but I've learned that I can only do so much. I have to turn everything over to my Higher Power. I have to let go and let God and that has been the best lesson I've ever learned in program....EVER!
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