Lexie,
OMG, (I was away all weekend so I missed all of this). I can't believe that he called on purpose. You are an expert and handled it so "professionally". I wish that I had the strength you did and just hung up.... wow!!! Good for you!! Then contacts you later and said that. I guess I am so naive that I had assumed it really was a mistake. You are so smart!! haha!!
So AXH always use to take his pot pipe and hit the side of the car to empty the screen and ashes in the pipe. (there are no ashtrays in cars anymore, not that he would keep the ashes) He would have It is tucked in his hand so no one could see it. He has done it for 30 years. This is just fuel for me to stay away as nothing changes.