Originally Posted by
SomeSortOfHuman 
Unfortunately, childless women in their 30s come in for a LOT of attention in my peer group when they are not drinking
It's often suggested that in early recovery you stay away from situations where alcohol plays a major part, then you don't have to
pretend to drink to met your peers' expecations.
That line from
not drinking to drinking can get mighty thin. Best to not even be in a position to cross it.