Welcome to SR Krk4. Many of us were/are alcoholics and some of us were married to one as well. It can be very challenging indeed. We also have a forum here specifically for friends and family member of alcoholics, you may find more people in your situation there, but you are always welcome here too, or any of the sub-forums. Anything specific you'd like to share or ask about?
Here is the link to the friends and family forum too if you'd like to check it out.
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ly-alcoholics/