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Old 09-19-2016, 02:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Praying View Post
I think if you're able to protect yourself and the kids and enforce what you have in place, I agree--make him file to change something, and then jump out with guns blazing.

If he gets no response other than no visits and can't tell if he's getting to you, it's possible he backs off. It's a lot of WORK to successfully go after you in court...that's not nearly as fun as harassing you.

Unless of course anything elevates. And I know you know to document document document.

Ugh, I'm so sorry!

Can you deal with the continued nonsense? Your attorney may be hoping to spare you the drama, though I agree it seems unlikely to end it (if he insists on giving you drama).
I used to think that court was a place to care about and protect kids and abuse sufferers... But my experience is that it is a venue in which narcissists THRIVE.

I think I prefer, crazy as it sounds, to let him hang himself with his own antics rather than try and convince a court to offer help to protect my kids and I.

Sad ass state of affairs in the family courts here...
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