Hmmm. Well if you only drink 2-3 times a year that doesn't seem to be too much of a hurdle. Plan something else that involves people, but not alcohol. If your friends care they will meet you for coffee, or dinner, or bowling, or a movie, manie/pedie, spa day etc.
As far as being alone, AA can be a great place to find understanding and companionship. Its not just about the meetings, so if its recovery from alcoholism that you seek you can find a sponsor, work the steps and really get involved.
Did I miss something?