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Old 09-10-2016, 06:03 AM
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Originally Posted by BeachPlease View Post
to go to AA
to find a full time job
to help with bills
to not use my credit card without my permission
to keep his word
to call his child more
to call his mother more
to go to the gym with me
to at least take me on a cheap date (he won't even do that)
to leave me alone when drunk
to understand enabling is real
to stop acting like he's already hit bottom & is on his way up
to help US

He can't do it, and I can't enable anymore. It's literally driving me mad.

It's sad, because he's actually a nice man. He's lazy as **** though and I'm not able to picture me dealing with this 5 years from now.
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