Originally Posted by
rockyMTNrider 
How do I edit? I have been trying to do it but i cant figure it out. I am logged in and can make new posts but i do not see the icon at the bottom of any previous posts.
Sorry I wasn't referring to the post per se , I meant that you can change your mindset going forward.
The AV wants to keep the present tense , you have the power to tell the AV to pound sand. IT wants to keep thinking that after such and such a time after stopping a return to drinking is inevitable ect, that can all be in past and stay there.
After stopping the battle/conflict with the AV is literally a mind game, adopting a mindset that ackowledges the past but recognizes that that past does Not dictate the future is key.
wish you well and hope to see you around