Old 08-26-2016, 05:25 PM
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anchoredbylove
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Originally Posted by atalose View Post
How much good and bad did his family witness and deal with before you came along?

The only way this is going to effect your lives and happiness is if YOU let it.

His family, allow him to deal with them as he see's fit.

They havent seen much good and bad. They didnt even know how long hes been using drugs recreationally or heavily. Which has been since hes been 14 dabbling in weed, and pills and such. So almost 14 years? I know i have to let a lot go, but like i said hes not one to open up and speak his mind, and i want him to be entriely happy, not just keep the water calm to make things easier. He can only put it off for so long before it becomes to much for him and im afraid itll test his sobriety. I understand its his sobriety and his recovery and he has control of it. Its just all very hard to deal with.
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