Originally Posted by
Refiner 
I totally agree with you here. The best response is to hit the IGNORE button (NO response) so no supply is given. No response IS a response but doesn't open that door giving them something to respond to. They ALWAYS have to have the last nasty word anyway, so that would just draw it out so you'd have to hear MORE nasty words. I also think anyone one the PD Spectrum likely has a mix of them. For instance, my AS, who is a N, lacks both guilt AND empathy so likely also has the sociopath PD going on, too.
Yes, I agree. Other than emails from my Dad that somehow require a response (which I will carefully compose regardless of how long it takes), I'm not going out of my way to initiate any emails to my Dad except for the bird video I sent. But I have an out on that one - it was forwarded to me and the message on the video screen said to share it with EVERYONE, lol. And I didn't write a personal message to go with it. If he wanted my stepmom to see it, that was his call.
:-D
Thanks for your post.
:-)