Hi Nicole,
Nice to meet you. I'm Deg from the UK. I'm glad you found SR. I first came here 2 years ago nearly, you'll meet some really nice folk so stick around.
I never thought I could change. But it does happen, and here is a great place to start. Have you got a plan of how you're going about this yet?
Treat it like a military campaign - you can't just pick a fight like this without doing some homework and stocking up on a few munitions. The more the better - Tanks, Planes, Warships - order several of each LOL! I know it's easy for me to joke now - but it will be for you too before long if you really want this.
Right here
Deg.