Welcome, Yours Truly, most of us here are codependent, I KNOW I am , so you have come to the right place.
as you can see above... there are a ton of us out here in the same Neverland boat.. hang on tight to this group of sillys.. for they are the best .. from the bottom of my heart... prayers and kiddo... my Pop was like yours only a Marine DI POPPPA BEAR besides.. love him to bits.. but the son of a gun is gone and can't hurt anyone anymore..