Do what feels right to you is my theory. Even AA says something like "take what you want and leave the rest"... At least I think that's AA. I personally don't go to meetings but, I do believe that people need people. Just my two cents...
Be careful though if you feel that the "relapse is part of recovery" ( not sure who says that but maybe AA) is going to be an excuse for you to drink.... Then leave that part there.