It was good to hear this. I am going to just take a break on the alcohol for a while. In reading your replies I felt like even if it's not a major problem, it's enough of a problem if I am giving it this much thought. In my past I have rarely drank excessively except overdoing it a few times a year with friends. Every time I have had a relationship break off I have tried using it to self-medicate the hurt and it just ends up hurting more anyway. I do feel a little bad for breaking off my relationship and having a bit of the problem myself, though it does not sound like we were going to get healthy together, and (in my own opinion anyway) she was much further down the road than me with the drinking.
Thank you, I will keep reading.