Old 08-13-2016, 08:32 AM
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KAD
Left the bottle behind 4/16/2015
 
Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: NC
Posts: 1,416
When I first got sober, I wanted everyone to know. I actually made a point of showing up in public places so people could see for themselves that I was sober. I felt so ashamed and remorseful, I was blabbing my personal business to anyone who would listen. After I reached my first year of sobriety, I was taken aback by the lukewarm reactions from people outside of AA and SR. I then began to regret telling so many people about it. I don't think they're unsupportive, for the most part, I just think they don't understand addiction or how recovery could occupy so much of my time and energy. So, I've learned to just not volunteer any information until/unless I'm asked and, even then, to be more discreet about just how much information I share and with whom.
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