Originally Posted by
FeelingGreat 
The 'how do you put up with me?' thing is pure manipulation. Meant to make you think if you leave you'll be hurting a small helpless animal.
Why isn't he paying half the bills and doing half the work?
FeelingGreat, he has had so many excuses over the years about his lack of financial contributions that I can't even start to list them. Bottom line, he is lazy and uses the "I want to be self employed" excuse. Half heartedly makes attempts at self employment and constantly tries to take the easy way out of everything. He's very resourceful and hardworking when he has no other choice so I'm not even worried about his well being anymore if I leave. I'm getting there, little by little. Coming out of the FOG
