Originally Posted by
BeachPlease 
AH says he doesn't know why I'm still with him. He only says this during his self pity speeches AFTER I used to bring up how I can't handle all of these bills by myself.
Is that a self pitying statement to drum up more sympathy from me?
I haven't asked him for money in months.
Sounds like it. Evasion, deflection...apparently he has no genuine interest in showing up and helping out? Nothing wrong with your receptors!
actually, come to think of it, he might even be bragging...
good luck!