It was the lack of drama that made me wonder if my relationship is good or not. I wasn't used to the hum drum, sitting watching TV, drinking tea, domesticity. I was waiting for the drunken arguments and none came. Yes we have disagreements but they are not of the pan throwing variety or fueled by alcohol. My b/f can drink a glass of wine and LEAVE the rest of the bottle in the fridge. That was a first for me. When he first said he loved me my first thought was what are you after? I've come to realise he meant it with all his heart. He loves me with all my screwiness fears and quirks. I accept things for what they are now. I don't worry about the future and we are working out a plan to be together. Your relationship sounds wonderful to me.