Thread: Am I settling?
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Old 08-04-2016, 10:31 AM
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redatlanta
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Deal is there are no guarantees. While rare, I have known people who were blindsided by the end of a relationship with zero clues or knowledge.

However, most of the time there are clues. You know when there are problems.

I don't see any here but your own insecurity. I wonder if he told you "I love you" several times a day if you wouldn't still question him. I think you may.

You cannot go through life with the assurances that no person will ever hurt you again. They will - it may not be him and I hope it is not, but it also may be him.

Your alternative is just to never be in a relationship again.

Or to know that there is always possibilities - but you will cross that bridge if it comes to it. Till then lay back and enjoy the ride!
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