Hi elysiajade & welcome
I'm sorry for what brings you to SR, but I know you'll find support here
For what it's worth no, I don't think you're overreacting. I'm sorry he's not being responsive to your concerns.
I hope you'll also check out our Family and Friends forum as well, you'll find a lot of experience and support down there too
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