Originally Posted by
elysiajade 
Thanks thomas11. I was most concerned this morning when his solution to him wetting the bed yet again was to buy a mattress protector, rather than consider that he is drinking too much. I am very worried. But hard when I try and discuss it as he genuinely doesn't really think he has an issue so I always question if I am being a nag or if I'm way overreacting. Thanks for taking time to read.
I'll be a little more firm and realistic. You will likely have little to zero input on getting him to quit drinking. We quit drinking because we've either had enough and are "ready", some end up with a long term prison sentence, or we die. It's really that simple.
Lastly, based on what you wrote, I feel strongly that he certainly has a problem and your concerns are valid.