My suggestion is to find some interests that put you in a setting where you'll meet new people. Where someone gets to know you for other than a possible date and just make friends. If you have a dog/the dog park. Also work on your fears and insecurities and why you have them. My son never had much of a dating life. He's a sensitive introvert who was always into art and music and didn't fit in well all during school. He worked through it and is happily married. I hope you keep putting yourself out there.