I wanted to say more in my last post because your were still here, but I thought you would sign off soon, so I kept it short.
I think back to what I was going through and I think what I wanted the most was validation. Not necessarily that I would be right, but I wanted to find a way to heal our family. I found out, I was only hurting it more. I realized later on not only was I hurting myself more, I was hurting my kids more, and I was actually hurting my ex more. See, I need him to show humility, and to change. In a way that is shaming someone. Sometimes that is too much to ask of a person. It shouldn't be, but it is.
I can also talk to you about the 180 someone can do and turn around and start to be the nicest parent the mother or father that they never knew, and somehow that person just appeared.
Again, how do you want to spend the rest of your life?
Always know, always here for you.
(((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))
amy