though she did state that she intended to quit drinking after she "settled in"
this rings such a bell, wells.
so many times i planned on some date in the future, after something-or-other had happened, or not happened...see, any time down the road as long as it wasn't now.
when i finally did quit and stay that way, it was NOW.
when/if she gets real serious, she will find help if she wants/needs it.
she will go looking.
she'll find a way/her way.