Originally Posted by
ajarlson 
... Makes me think I should try to get in touch,...I probably won't try to get in touch because I know where it leads. ...
Over in the al-anon meets they call that "no contact". They have a little slogan about "no new contacts means no new hurts"
Originally Posted by
ajarlson ...I will resist... but sometimes it's hard. ...
Yes it is. I go thru that too. I get this "relapse" where my fantasies start to sound more and more real. It's almost like I have an "addiction to fantasies" and I should join a meeting of "Fantasies Anonymous"
Mike
