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Old 07-09-2016, 04:45 AM
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August252015
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Great idea! In AA, the mantra is 90 meetings in 90 days. I got close - maybe 75,80 - and lots of people find this is a great plan in many ways. New habit - distraction- using up even just an hour (try not to sit there texting and get distracted!). Other ideas- blocking/deleting his number - or as I did in the past with a couple of bf I wanted to "delete" from my life - and the one who was an abuser - is change his name. I put in "Liar 1" and "Liar 2" for the two numbers I had for one guy.

I found that finding a time that worked for me made it easier to go 5-7x a week, and having a "backup" time in mind if I couldn't make the noon mtg I fell into. I don't know about ACA/DF mtgs but in AA there are usually clubhouses/meetings that are more oriented around newcomers; you get lots of people in their beginnings.

Keep going - you have a great plan!
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