Goneundone
I think there are probably many like us. My sponsor tells me always to say yes when asked so I do. Our fears are really just illusions and they must be faced or they come back to bite us. That is the only reason I say yes. I intuitively know I must face the fear.....because if I hide from it, that is like taking a drink for me. That is why the fourth step fear inventory is there. It must be dealt with. I guess I am answering part of my own question. I will not let this fear have its way with me. So I will always say yes but just wish it weren't so darned painful.