Be easy with yourself, rebuilding out self confidence, self worth, and our place in the world can take time after getting sober.
Anxiety is one of the things that I have had to accept and deal with since getting sober. I have found the more I work on my recovery, the more sure I am of myself and the more I am able to handle my anxiety. I have also found working out, meditation, and practicing different breathing exersices has really helped. Counseling and medication have also really helped me.