Sleepie, there isn't a soul on SR who doesn't have genuine sympathy for you and the hardships you've endured. It's expressed here multiple times everyday.
But to start a thread dripping with sarcasm -- "that's adorable," followed by guffawing emoticons -- is every bit as inconsiderate as you accuse others of being toward you.
There are countless posts from guys on SR who cite wanting to be a better father as their reason for seeking a sober life. There are guys who want the legacy of addiction to stop with them. These are guys who are working hard at it. There are some among us for whom today is solemnly spent with only memories. Yes, good memories for which we should not be expected to feel guilty or apologize.
No compassion? Ours is a community full of compassion. Same goes for accountability to the community.